Stepping forward when life becomes difficult
David learned leadership unusually early. As a child, he was outgoing, energetic, competitive, and naturally comfortable taking charge. He was elected president of his third-grade class and frequently found himself becoming the leader of whatever group he was in.
That leadership took on a much more serious meaning during his teenage years. His parents went through an extremely contentious divorce, and David found himself carrying responsibilities few teenagers expect to face. As the second-oldest of five children, he became a source of leadership and stability for his siblings.
That pattern—stepping forward when life becomes difficult—would repeat throughout his life.
As a young man, David built an impressive real-estate portfolio of 13 buildings and more than 100 rental units. But aggressive risk-taking and overleveraging eventually cost him everything. He lost the properties, sold his airplane and luxury automobile at substantial losses, and watched the confidence he had carried throughout his life take a tremendous hit.
He rebuilt.
His career at Nordstrom restored that confidence and showed him what he could accomplish when his energy, people skills, work ethic, and leadership ability were aligned.
Then life changed again. David lost his Nordstrom career after making a personal mistake that carried serious professional consequences. Rather than allowing that chapter to define the rest of his life, he took responsibility for it, learned from it, and started again—this time as an entrepreneur.
And then came an even greater loss. In 1998, David's wife, Dana, passed away.
David had experienced setbacks before, but losing Dana was different. He was also a father, and amid his own grief he knew that his sons needed him. Through all the career changes, financial setbacks, relationship disappointments, mistakes, and unexpected turns that followed, one identity became more important to David than any job title he ever held:
Today, he describes raising his two "rockstar sons," Kyle and Connor, as the greatest achievement of his life.